Friday, January 31, 2014

~ Day 14 ~ A day of remembrance

Today was my former father-in-laws memorial service so needless to say, it was a hard day for all of us. His service was at the church he last served as pastor and where he and my mother-in-law still attended up until a few months ago. We had seen him preach there numerous times so it was hard to imagine him not being up there giving the message or blessing you at communion. This man accepted me into him family when I was pregnant and unmarried to his son. He welcomed me with open arms without judgement. But more extraordinary, he welcomed Connor as a grandson immediately. It didn't matter that he wasn't blood, there was no difference to him. Every time we spoke he said I'm praying for you and looking back, I realize just how special those words were coming from him. Not just as a pastor but like a dad. He was the closest thing I had to a father and the only grandfather my boys had. I am sad that since the divorce I have only gotten to see them a handful of times and didn't get the chance to tell him what he meant to me but am grateful he knows now what was in my heart.
~ still climbing mountains ~

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